The M coupe front is designed to have the swaybar attach to the front struts. The ti has the front bar attach to the control arms. For this reason the M coupe front sway bar is a smaller diameter than the stock ti active bar. (23mm M vs 25mm ti).
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http://www.realoem.com/bmw/showparts...66&hg=31&fg=05 ti
http://www.realoem.com/bmw/showparts...20&hg=31&fg=10 If you mount the M bar to the control arms you will be worse off. If you have struts with the swaybar tabs you can mount the M front bar to the struts and have an upgrade.
Edit - I went over to the Z3 classified section on bimmerforums and posted a wtb ad for a 19mm M coupe rear sway. I got a lot of people pm'ing me. Only the S52 M coupe came with the 19mm rear bar. The roadster and S54 Coupes have an 18.5mm rear sway bar.