Thanks peeps.
About those grills, trust me, I really did my homework and took my time before installing them...
I've seen some frankenbeemers myself.
As for the spoiler, I bought it next to nothing a few years ago.
I believe it's was from here:
http://www.spoilerdepot.com/spoilers...bmw-318ti-e36/ It's just like oem... subtle.
My next mods: front drop, front lip and a good wash for heaven's sake.
One piece of advice I have, don't put it on, unless it looks like some Bavarian dude did.